This story was sent in yesterday by an LIN reader, and she told me to share the story for advice and contributions. My name is Adesuwa, i am from Edo state, a Benin by tribe. I met my fiancé two years back while i was still serving. he was working with a bank in the same state where i served. we actually met at the bank, he was 26 years old and i was 28 years old at the time we met. we hooked up, and with time we started dating and everything was going smoothly, even when he got to know that i was two years older than he is. I have the utmost respect for him even if he is younger than i am and i love him so much. a year and two months into the relationship, his younger sister visited him and at that time, i happened to be around in his house too. while we were discussing one day, she eavesdropped on us while we were discussing the age issue. unknowingly to us she heard all we said and went ahead to tell his mother about it, but we still didn't know at that point. two months after this, we started discussing marriage and we went to see out both parents to finalze plans on how we could go about our wedding, but to my surprise, when we went to my fiancé parents house, my fiancé mother said i cant marry her son. I was very surprised cos prior to this she hasn't made any objection to me marrying her son before. in fact i used to spend some weekends in their house and she used to be very nice to me whenever i go there.we`ve been pleading and pleading, all to no avail. there`s nothing i and my fiancé haven't done to try to make her happy, but she still remains adamant. I am very hurt and broken, i don't know what to do. I love the guy so much and have devoted everything in the relationship to him. Please, kindly post this story, i don't know what to do and i desperately need advice. thanks. your honest contributions and advice are welcomed. Anonymous.
Both of u should just pray to God more, then let the guy work on his mother
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